What to Do and What to Avoid in the Harsh Reality of Life
If you are looking for a real-life Success Guide, remember there are no shortcuts to success. Many of us only see the smiling faces of successful people, but the stories of sweat, sleepless nights, and sacrifices behind that smile remain hidden. Today, I am going to share some real-life experiences, achievements, and a guideline from my own life that will help you walk the right path.
My story is a bit different: Struggle is another name for life
I am an ordinary student. But my daily routine is not like that of ten other ordinary boys. My father is over 60 years old. Seeing the burden of his age and his hardships, I couldn’t just sit back and rely solely on my studies. Alongside my studies, I work 8 hours a day as a laborer.
After a whole day of backbreaking hard work, when my body refuses to move anymore, I work for my dreams. Staying awake at night and making time on holidays, without any formal programming education, I have mastered my digital skills using only YouTube and AI.
Early achievements and a big decision
My hard work did not go in vain. At just 16 years of age, I started my YouTube channel ‘Rohit 10 Jr’, which today has over 58,000 subscribers. Then, at 17, I created my own website ‘thefootballpulse.com’. Everything was going perfectly fine.
But suddenly, I made a big decision. I deleted all the articles and media from my successful sports website and shut down my old projects. Why? Because the current generation’s social media feeds and the abundance of meaningless content made me think deeply. Not just for views or money, I wanted to do something that would add real ‘Value’ to people’s lives. And with that goal in mind, I started working on a new platform like ‘urprimezone.com‘, which will inspire people towards good deeds and the right direction.
My Success Guide: Routine on the path to success. What I do and what I don’t
I realize the value of time very deeply. When others waste time chatting or seeking entertainment, I am busy improving my skills. Entertainment is a part of life, but it should be for a very short time.
In this journey of success, I strictly follow some rules. Below are those ‘Dos’ and ‘Don’ts’:
🟢 What to Do (Things you must do for success)
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Dream big: No matter how difficult the situation is, you must have the courage to dream. Big dreams will give you the strength to wake up and fight every morning.
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Value time properly: Once time is gone, it never comes back. Keep track of how every hour of your day is being spent.
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Follow and update your routine: Create a specific routine. But just making a routine is not enough; you must update yourself and your routine over time.
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Smart Work + Hard Work: Just toiling away like a donkey won’t cut it. If you are short on time like me, you have to work smartly using technology (like AI), along with hard work.
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Admit your faults without making excuses: If you fail, don’t blame the situation or others. Learn to admit your mistakes and learn from them.
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Learn something new or acquire knowledge: Try to learn at least one new thing every day. Knowledge is your biggest weapon.
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Have patience: No one becomes successful in one day. You must have the unbreakable patience to keep working day after day.
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Keep a Plan B: It is good to have a goal in life, but keeping reality in mind, it is always wise to have a ‘Plan B’ ready.
🔴 What to Avoid (Things you must strictly avoid)
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Partying or addictions: Doing drugs or partying excessively for temporary pleasure ruins both your energy and focus. And it causes a lot of damage in the long run. Stay a hundred miles away from these.
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Social Media Distraction: Use social media to learn, not to pass the time. Scrolling for hours makes your brain lazy and wastes crucial time.
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Impact of wrong relationships: Do not get emotionally driven at a young age and get involved in a relationship (like a toxic relationship) that disrupts your mental peace and distracts you from your goals. This is one of the biggest causes of ruin for the younger generation. After a breakup, only a few boys go on to do great things, but 95% of boys get ruined. They drown in addiction and start doing all sorts of bad things. In a word, it destroys life.And being in a relationship also causes a lot of damage such as wasted time
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Wasting time with too many friends: It is good to have friends, but spending most of the day with friends who have no goals in their own lives is foolish. Keep your circle small, but keep a quality circle. And you too should inspire others to build quality, because just you or your friends being good isn’t enough; you have to help others become good too.
In conclusion, success is not magic; it is the result of right decisions and continuous hard work. The sacrifices you make today will build the foundation of your success tomorrow. Believe in yourself and keep working. Insha’Allah, you will definitely be successful.
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